Well, it happened that for point 1 and 2, I missread the documentation (check pic attached below), that even the latest versions (I have the 6.1.1_1.0.0) do not have the profiling feature, and that I had to replace the binary with the one provided by the EIQ toolkit. This is now done, and indeed I can access the profiling graph, even with the VX delegate, with the following command line on the target board:
$ modelrunner -d prof -H 10818 -e tflite -c 3
And then adding the device http//<ip>:10818 on the remote laptop within the Model Tool GUI.
However, what about my last point, when the model uses custom tflite operators? So far I haven't seen any options in the executable itself, and no source code on the internet.
Thanks