I have checked the other thread https://community.nxp.com/t5/i-MX-RT/Specific-bytes-at-the-beginning-of-binary-file-don-t-allow-to/m... and from the attached screenshot it seems

that first command is fill memory with configuration word for flex SPI configuration
blhost -p <com> fill-memory 0x2000 4 0xC0000106 word
second command is to enable this configuration
blhost -p <com> -- configure-memory 9 0x2000
third command is flash-erase regions 0...0x1e000
blhost -p <com> flash-erase-region 0x60000000 0x1e000 9
and the last command is load to memory
blhost -p <com> write-memory 0x60000000 <your binary file>
Please note, that flashloader must be running in target in order to execute these commands.
sdphost -p <com> -j -- write-file 0x20001C00 <path to flashloader bin>
sdphost -p <com> -j -- jump-address 0x20001C00
Or check the SEC tool, which does it all for you.