redlinkserv is NOT a gdbserver and it cannot be used as one.
With LPCXpresso, if you want to use gdb from the command line, you need to use one of the crt_emu* programs (which one, depends on your target) as a remote target within GDB. The best way of working out what you need to do is to start a debug session from within LPCXpresso and then look at the GDB console - you will see the commands that are being issued to GDB.
Note1: that there have been some changes with the new MCUXpresso product, but, AFAIK, it does not use a gdbserver when used with LPC-Link1/2.
Note2: LPCXpresso does also work J-Link which is a gdbserver. In the new MCUXpresso product, J-Link is natively supported.