Hi, Naik,
I have to say it is difficult to figure out the capacitor value to generate 32.768KHz clock because of parasitic capacitor for the pins. But the larger the load capacitor is, the lower the crystal clock frequency is.
Because your phenomenon is "I am getting a lag of 30 seconds in one day", so I suppose you have to increase the crystal clock frequency or decrease the load capacitor for example 5pF or 4pF. Pls have a try.
BR
XiangJun Rong