Hi,
I think it is okay to use any 12MHz crystal with proper load capacitor.
so the ABM3B-12.000MHZ-B2-T is okay, the load cap is 18pF, so the two capacitor value is:
CX1=CX2=18pF*2=36pF.
Considering the parasitic cap, you can use 33pF cap for the CX1 and CX2.
Hope it can help you
BR
XiangJun Rong