Hello, my name is Pavel, and I will be supporting your case, I review your information and I hope this information could help you.
The proposes of the EVK are only for evaluation and get all in one, and you have a point you do not need to put the LPC43, and that is right, you do not need to add this debugger OB.
For your new custom board, you will need an external debugger but do not worry this MCU Link JTAG/SWD Debug Probe | NXP Semiconductors is the cheapest debugger from NXP, but there is another option depending on your requirement, Universal Multilink Development Interface | NXP Semiconductors, or J-link Segger all of this support SWD interface.
Let me know if you have doubts.
Best regards,
Pavel