Hi Mads Nielsen
When you said that you disabled the Reset functionality on the SWD port , do you mean in the Flash Memory module (FTFA_FOPT)?
Yes, You are always guaranteed to enter a reset state of the MCU by sending commands to the ARM DAP without having the Reset pin available, because this commands doesn't use the pin to force a system reset. I made some tests in my side and I successfully could access the DP CTRL/STAT register and request a reset state with the Reset pin disable.
Hope this information helps
Have a great day,
Jorge Alcala