Hi Jay,
1. You can set the SDIO clock to 52MHz by doing:
.max_clk = 48000000, in the mxs_mmc_platform_data structure inside device.c
2. Yes, that's the place where DDR mode is set. You should remove it in the SDIO case
3. Yes, you should remove it. Also, I guess you are operating in 4-bit mode, so MMC_CAP_8_BIT_DATA should also be removed.
Regards,
Fabio Estevam