Hello KentOverton,
Are you targeting RFID working at HF or UHF frequencies?
About the NFC Tag and reader selection, please look at our portfolio under this link: https://www.nxp.com/products/rfid-nfc/nfc-hf:MC_71110
About the use case (metal housing), I would suggest taking a look at our antenna application notes where we describe NFC operation in metal environments e.g. PN7160 antenna design and matching guide -> section 3 Shielding and environment impact.
Generally, you should keep a distance between the NFC antennas and metal + if the metal is directly behind the antenna, so ferrite shielding is recommended.
In case of any further assistance with the design or chip selection do not hesitate co contact us.
BR
Tomas