> The slave i write is 0XA0 ...
A common source of misunderstanding and confusion is the definition of this address. As mentioned, it is 7 bit, not 8 bit.
The datasheet either expects an AND operation with the RW-bit, or implies a left-shift of this address by one bit. Often, these datasheets reveal this only indirectly, in either their figures or waveform examples.
The easiest way would be to try out both.