1. First, sorry, KL series does not like K series, it owns BATT pin. So I think KL cannot only powred to RTC. But I do not think you have to use external RTC chip for your application. KL series has very low leakage stop power mode(about 300nA), the core consume is very low.
2. For your external battery voltage detection, KL can do this function.
3. For your RTC clock source question, there are three clock source for RTC module. They are external clock(32.768KHz), internal 1KHz LPO and RTC_CLKIN (external reference clock in). Reminder is only RTC_CLKIN, this clock source can work in VLLS0 mode(the lowest power mode).