Hi,
As you've mentioned, the RTC isn't available because the pins don't appear on the LQFP package.
From the email I had from Freescale on the 14th June :
"Lastly, as for the eSDHC, Design confirmed that although the eSDHC primary signals are made available on the LQFP package that the eSDHC module was not made available for this package."
So, it looks like the disabling of the eSDHC was deliberate on this package as, unlike the SSI, they've not said it was disabled by accident.
I got the following from our Freescale supplier in the UK on the 19th August :
"At the present time, there are no plans to correct the faults that you have identified on the devices"
So, if you want SSI or eSDHC avoid the LQFP parts 
I am appalled at the way Freescale are handling this, customer care obviously does not exist.
They've known about these faults on the LQFP parts since 14th June and they've still not updated the datasheet or errata for this device.
Technical support do not seem to be aware of the problems - I got a another company to ask for the latest eratta for these devices recently and they were pointed to the one on the website which is out of date 
It's a shame Freescale don't care about it's customers. You would have thought that having caused a lot of headaches and problems for one customer they'd try and avoid doing the same to other customers. Sadly, it seems that's not the case.
Paul