Hello,
Your interpretations of my response are correct.
If you are using a character LCD module then just keep doing the same as usual.
I doubt it is viable to get hold of the glass only for this and then interface it to a microcontroller with LCD interface..
The main reason for doing it like this is when you are wanting a custom glass panel or you are talking high volumes.
My knowledge of LCD theory is sketchy and possibly out of date (because I have only ever dealt with modules) so I am not going to attempt to explain how the glass works. Like I said Google should be able to help you out here.