Here is the way I have done it using the 9S08AW32.  Should work the same.
 
Note:  This was ported from some old 705 code, so the X register is used to manipulate and maintain a stack(used too much in the code to change this).
 
Hope it helps.
 
;
; Read in a Word from the EEPROM
; E - TOS = Address of the Word
; R - TOS & TOS+1 = Word Read
; L - A
;
RD_93XX:
 LDA SPI1S   ;dummy read to clear flags
 LDA SPI1D   ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 LDA #$80  ;Add Read Command
 STA ,X   ;Save Command Bits
 LDA 1,X   ;Load Address from Para Stack
 AND #$3F  ;Mask Address Bits
 ORA ,X   ;Add Command Bits
 STA 1,X   ;Store on Parameter Stack
 ; write command
 PUL_A         ;Load Character from Stack
 STA SPI1D      ;Send Character
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 ; READ BYTE
 STA SPI1D      ;dummy write
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;read byte
 STA ,X          ;store byte
 DECX        ;Dec Parameter Stack Ptr
 ; READ BYTE
 STA SPI1D      ;dummy write
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;read byte
 STA ,X          ;store byte
 DECX        ;Dec Parameter Stack Ptr
 RTS             ;return
 
;
; Write to EEPROM
; E - TOS = Address of EEPROM
;     TOS+1 & TOS+2 = Word to be Sent
; R - none
; L - A
;
WR_93XX:
 LDA SPI1S   ;dummy read to clear flags
 LDA SPI1D   ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 LDA #$40  ;Write Command
 STA ,X   ;Save Command Bits
 LDA 1,X   ;Load Address from Para Stack
 AND #$3F  ;Mask Address Bits
 ORA ,X   ;Add Command Bits
 STA 1,X   ;Store on Parameter Stack
 ; write command
 PUL_A         ;Load Character from Stack
 STA SPI1D      ;Send Character
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 JSR SWAP   ; Swap Bytes
 ;write byte
 PUL_A         ; Load Character from Stack
 STA SPI1D      ; Send Character
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 ;write byte
 PUL_A         ; Load Character from Stack
 STA SPI1D      ; Send Character
 BSR WAIT_SPI    ;wait for spi to finish
 LDA SPI1D       ;dummy read to clear Data reg
 RTS
 
; WAIT FOR SPI TRANSFER TO COMPLETE
WAIT_SPI:
 BRSET SPI1S_SPTEF,SPI1S,WAIT_SPI0 ; Check for Xmit Reg Empty
 JSR PAUSE      ; No Wait
 BRA WAIT_SPI
WAIT_SPI0:
 RTS