Thanks for your reply. The thread you link regarding GPIO from u-boot unfortunately isn't much help, because all it says is "set iomixing for for your board" using the appropriate board.c file (in my case presumably that's <uboot>/board/freescale/mx6ul_14x14_evk/mx6ul_14x14_evk.c) and that there should already be iomuxing examples, but it doesn't say at all what I should be looking for. I see a lot of functions that have "iomux" in them, but this is all incredibly vague. every pad on the IC seems to be called out somewhere, but there's nothing in this file that tells me what or how I call anything from the u-boot gpio api. The u-boot gpio api wants something like a bank number and an io number, and none of that is specified in the board.c file. The "instructions" then go on to say to "use the u-boot gpio api" and it links to what I assume is the source code for the gpio tool, but there is no clue at all in that c file as to how the gpio tool is actually used. I don't see a list of gpio numbers that the tool wants, nothing that maps, for example, the actual processor io named "gpio01_05" to a number or a bank and number that I can toggle or set using the u-boot gpio command. I feel even more confused and lost now than I did before.
For the display stuff, you mention using the linux BSP, which I believe I downloaded, but none of those files make sense either. What I've been doing all along so far is: building u-boot, running dd to place the u-boot-imx file on the sd card, and building the device tree, kernel, and linux file system and copying those to the sd card. I've tried messing around with the yocto project stuff, but that documentation is incredibly hard to follow, and while I think I've successfully run a bitbake command once, I'm not seeing a lot of info on how to modify build like how I'm modifying config and c files in u-boot and the kernel directly with my current method, and on top of that, I've tried building with the yocto project 2 times now, and both times it took literally all day and night to complete the build, so i don't want to keep going through that.
I tried looking at the document "i.MX Linux® User's Guide, Rev. L4.9.88_2.0.0-ga, 05/2018" in section 8 it mentions that there are "a number of graphics tools, tests, and example programs that are built and installed in the Linux rootfs" but I don't even have linux up and running yet. right now I'm (trying) to do everything from u-boot because I'm stuck on an issue where the filesystem isn't loading (stuck on the console message "Waiting for root device /dev/mmcblk0p2", although that's definitely the right device and partition, and I've recreated partitions, reformatted, everything, on multiple sd cards, thought the sd cards and hardware interface have to be correct because i can load u-boot and the kernel).