Yes, it looks like DDR3 problems. This can include different failure fources, problems with power supplies (GVDD, VTT, MVREF); mistakes with DDR3 schematics, PCB layout; mistakes in DDR3 initialization sequence. Everything should be checked.
"I connect ddr's RESET pin to GPIO1" sounds very doubtful. Note that DDR's RESET works under 1.5V supply, GPIO of the P2020 can output 3.3V level. So potentially DDR can be damaged!
Regards,
Bulat