Hello Carlos,
We have already tested the hardware without DDR device .No boot issues found in such platform.
Here we didn't removed the DDR device physically from the PCB board instead we didn't initialize and activate
the DDR device in software. This confirm no issue in our hardware.
As per NXP application note "AN10931"
"To clear the drive condition, the SDRAM device needs a few clocks with the SDRAM
clock enable signal active" and you have proposed workaround solution.Same workaround we have implemented in the design.
My worry here is -the propagation delay and enable time of buffer device(P/N:74LVC1G126) decides the clock enable time . But it will vary from 1ns to 10ns over temperature and sample to sample causing booting failure

We are stuck at production build due to this major failure in workaround you have proposed. Hope we get good resolution from your end soon.
regards,
Shamanth