Hi,
1) There is default handler for IVOR4 only. This could be used without changes, but if you have different requirements, you can change it. For other exceptions, there in only simple trap handler.
2) If you want to create your own handler for exceptions (for example IVOR1 handler), please download the following examples and open open example5. It shows, how to create your own IVOR1 handler. (see ivor_branch_table_pc0.c file and main.c file)
http://cache.nxp.com/assets/documents/data/en/application-notes-software/AN5200SW.zip
3) This is application dependent problem and it has nothing to do with microcontroller itself. If NMI is the only interrupt you need, you can disable all other interrupts, but remember that these interrupts will not be executed.
Regards,
Martin