I'm trying to understand which pins, and for what purpose, the iMX8 Nano uses for SD/eMMC boot. Specifically the USDHC-3 port. Our product will boot from an eMMC on USDHC-3. It appears the datasheet and the reference manual don't agree on pin usage.
The datasheet lists these pins:

I've highlighted the pins that don't seem to agree with the reference manual (below).
The Reference Manual lists a different set of pins:

As can be seen, some of these pins are the same as listed in the datasheet, some are different. I've highlighted the pins that are different.
As an example: If I look at the datasheet, I would believe the NAND_READY_B pin is used for the eMMC/SD reset. But if I look at the reference manual it says the GPIO1_IO09 pin. Either is potentially possible:

What is the correct list of pins and functionality for USDHC3 boot?
Thanks very much.