Hello FeverNova,
I diodn't look up those memory chips. I guess that they are by-16 architecture. Since the ColdFire has byte addressability, then you need to connect the A0 from the mcu to the A1 on the memory, etc. From your description of what you know already, you seem to want to make a 32-bit wide memory from the 2-off x16 parts, that's why you'd connect the D16 to dq0 on the first sdram. Then you say its a assembly option, which puzzled me.
2 references for you to look at:
1) Schematic for the MCF5208 eval board, published to the freescale site
2) FlexBus application note AN2982.
Good luck
Mark