Hi,
I have a paid for copy of the P&E HCS08 software set.
The pop up you are talking about in this version has a tick box just above the bottom row of buttons that says:
Show this dialog before attempting to contact target (Otherwise only display on error).
This is where I do what you are trying to do. Actually, if you want to change it back you have to create an error to make it come up again where it will be pre-ticked for you.
It looks like the version they have supplied to Codewarrior doesn't have this tickbox but the message at the top remains.
Actually using P&E software fixes the other issues you mention as well!
Regards Peg
Hotsync is to synchronize your debugging cable while the MCU is running without stopping it. If the device is not secured, it's a way for you to see what it's doing and change data on the fly.
HiWave: because was integrated to CodeWarrior when the company's product was bought by Motorola. Still, you can use any debugger and are not obliged to use it. If you want to pay for another one, you can.
Alvin.