Your CONFIG_SF_DEFAULT_CS configuration does not look correct.
For reference, take a look at:
commit 8bfa9c692e024bcf2b0b95be33adfa710301f83f
Author: Fabio Estevam <fabio.estevam@freescale.com>
Date: Fri Nov 8 16:20:54 2013 -0200
mx6sabresd: Add SPI NOR support
mx6sabre board has a m25p32 SPI NOR connected to ECSPI1 port.
Add support for it.
This patch allows the SPI NOR flash to be succesfully detected:
=> sf probe
SF: Detected M25P32 with page size 256 Bytes, erase size 64 KiB, total 4 MiB
Signed-off-by: Fabio Estevam <fabio.estevam@freescale.com>