Hello Jozef Szigl,
Yes, when using T topology, the address signals should be the same length for all DDR chips. There is some margin, You don’t mention which processor you are using but for the i.MX6 for example address traces routing should match with a ± 25 mils margin.
You can find more details on recommended routing for the i.MX6 on the HW Design Guide (link below), although these are not unique to the i.MX6.
http://www.nxp.com/assets/documents/data/en/user-guides/IMX6DQ6SDLHDG.pdf
I hope this helps!
Regards,