1. Per the topology.jpg, the Rt was pull down to the GND, while I think it should be pull up to DDR_VTT(0.75V) and connected to GND with a capacitor. Please refer i.mx6dq CPU board schematic.
2. I don't know the simulation and ISIB model. But for i.mx6dq DDR pad, the drive strength can be configured.What drive strength you are using? Try other value if you can.