Hello Sergay Latushev,
Just as a side note, the VAR-SOM board is manufactured and supported by Variscite, so they can better assess you regarding the BSP for their boards.
In general terms of BSP porting there is a BSP Porting Guide available as part of NXP BSPs documentation which may be of help. It’s more than ten pages long but it does not provide a step by step instruction either so hopefully it may help at least to guide you through the porting process.
https://www.nxp.com/docs/en/user-guide/i.MX_BSP_Porting_Guide_Linux.pdf
There is also a BSP Developer’s Guide from the Yocto Project:
https://www.yoctoproject.org/docs/2.4/bsp-guide/bsp-guide.html
(Make sure that the version corresponds to your Poky version, this link is for Rocko, changes are usually small, but they sometimes are present)
You can edit the DTS and rebuild, but I would first test doing this manually outside of Yocto. The problem is that Yocto is not designed with development in mind so it may not rebuild the device tree binary if it had done it before so that may be why you are not seeing any changes even after editing the device tree sources.
I hope this helps!
Regards,