Dear Quinn ,
At the first glance, "ADDR and CTRL drives a double load" does not look like a problem from the loading point of view. The memory chips' inputs are of a CMOS type, i.e., no real DC load, and double capacitance quite likely may be compensated by boosting the Vybrid output drive strength.
However, you have to take into account that, based on the market trend, all our 16-bit DDR Vybrid-based design examples are based on a single 16-bit DDR chip, which means you will have to develop the board layout fully on your own, without benefiting from our results. You will have to follow examples for other processors - those using multiple DDR chips, e.g., i.MX6 family, including consulting the relevant published Hardware Development Guide, which has a DDR section board-layout chapter.
Regards, Naoum.