Hi Michael,
Sorry for the delay in answering your question, I have been out of the office during the last few days.
You are right, it is not achievable using the FXOS8700CQ.
In hybrid mode with both sensors active, the ODR is identical for both the accel and mag and can be set using dr[2:0] bits of the CTRL_REG1 register according to Table 35.

All possible interrupt sources and routing configuration is shown in Fig.10.

Routing to either INT1 or INT2 pin is done using bits in the CTRL_REG5 register.

Best regards,
Tomas