Hello @yfliu,
Yes, the match interrupt asserts after the first 8bit frame is received if the data match.
Regarding WORD / FRAME side, I think it is explained in the description of the FRAMESZ register.

The Frame Complete Flag (FCT) asserts when the frame is complete which can consists of many words.
Whereas the Word Complete Flag (WCF) asserts on completion of each word.
The Transfer Complete Flag is specified for the Master mode only.

I have been testing it and the the flag does not get set in the Slave mode.
You can use DMA for the LPSPI Slave.
But this is really application-dependent, there is no simple answer I'm afraid.
Regards,
Daniel