Mark
The K22 on the TWR-K22F120M doesn't have a CAN controller in it and that is why there is no connection. There are quite a number of Kinetis parts that do though and can be used in the tower kit.
eg. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ha8cv_XEvco
The Kinetis CAN controller is virtually identical to the one in the MCF5213 but the Kinetis parts are simply massively better than the old Coldfire V2s (in almost every aspect) so certainly go for a Kinetis.
I developed the uTasker CAN driver for the 5213 back in 2006: http://www.utasker.com/kirin3.html
and, as mentioned, it runs virtually unchanged on the Kinetis parts: http://www.utasker.com/kinetis.html
just everything else if better, faster, lower power, much feature-rich, cheaper.... etc. Various Kinetis parts also have two of them.
Regards
Mark
P.S. Be very careful with the K22 parts - there are various types, but with many surprises since their feature sets and capabilities can vary dramatically. They look to be compatible but if you step up or down in Flash size you may find that bits are then missing, speeds can't be obtained, and other potential pitfalls. Probably they should have given the chips different names but they didn't so one needs to tread carefully and compare the user manuals attentively.
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